From Awkward to Aligned: How to Find the Right Networking Group for You
Let’s be real, networking isn’t supposed to feel like you’re performing on a stage or surviving an awkward speed-dating session.
And yet, for so many entrepreneurs, that’s exactly what it’s become: rooms full of forced smiles, endless pitches, and a lingering feeling that you’re in the wrong place, speaking the wrong language.
But what if networking could feel natural?
What if it could be inspiring, empowering, even fun?
Spoiler: it can.
You just need to find the right room.
At The NETwork, we believe that the most powerful business connections happen in spaces where you feel seen, safe, and supported, not sold to. If you’re craving connection without compromise, this blog is your guide to finding a networking group that feels less like a sales floor, and more like home.
Why the Wrong Room Feels So… Wrong
If you’ve ever walked into a networking event and immediately wanted to walk back out, you’re not alone.
Here’s what might be going on:
The group values competition over collaboration
Everyone is expected to pitch or sell immediately
There’s an unspoken pressure to prove yourself
The space lacks inclusivity or feels cliquey
You can’t see anyone who looks, sounds, or thinks like you
These aren’t signs that you’re “bad at networking.”
They’re signs you’re in the wrong room.
So, What Does the Right Room Feel Like?
You feel welcome the moment you arrive
You’re encouraged to be yourself, not a polished version of yourself
There’s space for real conversations, not just surface-level exchanges
You meet people who share your values, not just your industry
You leave feeling energised, not exhausted
The right group should feel like an extension of your community, a place where your voice matters, your presence is valued, and your growth is supported.
How to Know If a Networking Group Is Right for You
Here are five things to look out for when choosing a networking group that actually works for you:
1. Values Alignment
Before anything else, check:
Do they stand for what you stand for?
If inclusivity, collaboration, and heart-led entrepreneurship matter to you, then a hard-sales, numbers-driven room won’t cut it.
Look at their:
Website or social media tone
Code of conduct
Leadership team
Guest speakers and topics
If you can’t find any mention of values, community, or culture—it might not be your space.
2. Format That Supports Your Energy
Are you introverted? Neurodivergent? Time-poor?
The best networking spaces are flexible and supportive. Whether you need:
Smaller breakout groups
Virtual options
Clear structure and facilitation
Social connection without chaos
…you deserve to be in a space that meets you where you are.
At The NETwork, we offer both online and in-person options with calm, curated conversations, not chaotic crowds.
3. Focus on Connection (Not Conversion)
You can feel the difference between a room where people want to know you, and a room where people just want to sell to you.
The right group will prioritise:
Sharing experiences over sales pitches
Listening as much as talking
Asking thoughtful questions
Supporting each other without strings attached
Real connections lead to real business, but only when trust is built first.
4. Room for Every Voice
A truly aligned space doesn’t limit who gets to be seen, heard, or celebrated.
Look for networking groups that:
Don’t restrict how many of each profession can join
Welcome diverse backgrounds, identities, and perspectives
Have clear inclusion policies and accessible practices
No one thrives in a space where they’re expected to code-switch, mask, or prove their worth. You deserve to feel at home, not on trial.
5. A Sense of Belonging You Can Feel (Not Just Read About)
Trust your gut.
If you attend a taster session or event and walk away thinking “These are my people,”, that’s your sign.
If you leave thinking “That felt performative,”, that’s also your sign.
Networking is emotional. And when you find a group that matches your vibe, your energy will thank you.
The NETwork: Where Alignment Meets Connection
If you’ve been searching for a space that feels inclusive, warm, and genuinely supportive, welcome to The NETwork.
We’re not here to force connections, we’re here to foster them.
We believe in:
Deep conversations, not elevator pitches
Diversity of thought and identity
Education, collaboration, and community over cliques and competition
Building confidence alongside your business
Whether you’re just starting out or deep into your entrepreneurial journey, there’s a seat for you here, and it comes with a cheer squad.
Final Thoughts: Your People Are Out There
If traditional networking leaves you cold, it doesn’t mean networking isn’t for you.
It means you’re ready to find something better.
Something that sees you. Supports you. Celebrates you.
The right room is out there, and when you find it, it changes everything.
